RESOURCES
Best Rituals
the bullshit i see in you
by weiler
Essential Ingredients: A circle of men. A safe place.
Impact: 5 (Life or Team changing experience)
Up to three adjectives describing where the ritual takes the men: Pain, Shame, Blame
Time Needed: 20 seconds times the number of men in the circle squared.
Description: Each man takes a turn standing in the middle of the circle.
Each other man walks up to him, puts his hand on his heart and says… “(Name), the bullshit I see in you is….” And then clear and concisely describes the bullshit he sees in that man.
It comes from a place of love and truth. Most men really appreciate this exercise. We think we’re hiding our bullshit well, or that we don’t have any bullshit left to hide from, but then when other men point it out, it brings it to the surface. It’s fascinating to learn how we project ourselves, and how others see us.
The exercise goes until all men have revealed to each other man the bullshit he sees in him.
Impact: 5 (Life or Team changing experience)
Up to three adjectives describing where the ritual takes the men: Pain, Shame, Blame
Time Needed: 20 seconds times the number of men in the circle squared.
Description: Each man takes a turn standing in the middle of the circle.
Each other man walks up to him, puts his hand on his heart and says… “(Name), the bullshit I see in you is….” And then clear and concisely describes the bullshit he sees in that man.
It comes from a place of love and truth. Most men really appreciate this exercise. We think we’re hiding our bullshit well, or that we don’t have any bullshit left to hide from, but then when other men point it out, it brings it to the surface. It’s fascinating to learn how we project ourselves, and how others see us.
The exercise goes until all men have revealed to each other man the bullshit he sees in him.
